Is it possible to actually meet women in bars and clubs?
Many guys will tell you that it’s a waste of time because it’s too competitive and you can’t meet quality people. However, you’ll also hear many success stories from those who seem to have figured out some kind of system for meeting attractive women.
Do they know something the rest of us don’t? Well, maybe.
Bars and clubs Brewery Bellingha can be brutal if you don’t know what you’re doing. The reason most guys fail miserably in these venues is due to inexperience. They simply do what ever comes natural – and usually that consists of poorly delivered pickup lines. The problem with that approach is that every other guy is doing the same thing, and these women have seen it all before. You come off as being predictable and unoriginal – not much of a challenge at all.
One thing you’ll notice about guys that seem to be able to attract the most beautiful women is that they don’t appear as desperate as those with the weak pickup lines. They stand out from the pack because they appear comfortable with themselves, confident, and less needy than everyone else.
Why does this work?
It’s basic human psychology to be intrigued by someone who prefers to take the road less traveled. It’s also human nature to be attracted to someone who may not necessarily be attracted to you. It’s the, “we all want what we can’t have” syndrome.
People naturally discount that which comes easily, and value that which is more of a challenge. Those of us that understand that simple concept have a huge advantage over everyone else. Think of that the next time you approach a beautiful woman in a club or bar.
Taking Things to the Next Level
Take her immediately to a place where you can have some breakfast and talk. By the end of all this, you’ll have an open door to get her phone number or to send her a text the next day. Whatever you do, don’t try to get her home.
Even if she agrees, women who sleep with men right away often get stricken with guilt and grow cold towards that man.
Instead, get her phone number and make a short-term sacrifice to gain a long-term opportunity with her later.